The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice. – P. O’Mara
Good citizens are honest, respectful, responsible and caring. Children need role models and experiences to develop these skills. Raising your child to be a good citizen benefits your child, family and community.
Here are five great tips for parents hoping to raise good citizens:
1. Tell the truth and keep your promises. Honesty builds trust. Trust is the cornerstone for all relationships. When you tell your children you will do something, whether reward or punishment, follow through. A parent’s ability to keep their word and follow through on promises creates the foundation upon which their child’s honesty and integrity are built.
2. Do the right thing. Good citizens make good choices. Set a good example for your children; let them see you doing the right thing. Speak to your children about the choices you make so they understand what the right decision is and why you made it. Encourage your children to be helpful before they are even asked; whether it’s tidying their room or cleaning up litter at the ballpark. If you see your child making good choices, reward and reinforce the behavior with praise.
3. Help others. Good citizens care about others; they have the desire and courage to make a difference in the world. Look for ways to volunteer as a family. Don’t underestimate your child’s ability to make a meaningful contribution. Little people can make big impacts! One small action can ripple out and make the world a better place. By sharing their time and talents, your children will see how valuable they are. Helping others is a great confidence booster.
4. Be kind! Good citizens treat people the way they want to be treated. They are tolerant of others, they show compassion and they exude grace. Teach your children to be kind to everyone by modeling sharing and caring. Encourage your children to use kind words even when there is a disagreement. Remind them that conflict can provide opportunities to learn and connect with others. Lead by example; apologize when you need to and be the first to offer forgiveness.
5. Be positive! A positive attitude is a contagious thing. A parent who is positive and energetic will see the same electric personality in their child. Your child’s energy will brighten all those they meet throughout their day.
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